Family, I just don't see how a Black man can love himself and love his people and not have a Black woman by his side. Call me stupid but I have never understood that. In my feeble mind it just does not compute. Look at how many beautiful and available and eligible Black women are out there literally praying for a good brother to come into their lives. There is no shortage of them. Last week we had a rousing discussion about what is on your head reflecting what is in your head. Surely who is by your side is even more important. Or am I wrong?