Family, I hate to argue. And debating is not a favorite with me with either. I don't mind a good discussion, or even an opposing point of view, especially if the discussion is respectful. But if it becomes contentious, an argument for argument's sake or if I just see that we are leagues apart, I am out of here and bid you go in peace. Call it the evolution or devolution of a historian. Indeed, I think that is why I leaned more towards being a historian than a pure political activist. I am more inclined to give people the middle finger, say goodbye and shut it down. I enjoy people with open minds and who are humble enough to want to learn. I hate to argue, especially with people who either know everything or would have you believe they know everything.